Our Relationship
December 7, 2006
The story of Reidy and Dita began when they met at Gramedia Basuki Rahmat. Reidy was going with his friend, Pras, who is actually Dita’s uncle. Pras then introduced them. No further feeling at that time. They just wanted to be friends. It was true that they were best friends. They told stories. They shared sadness and happiness. They discussed problems. They did brainstorming almost in every topic. This friendship became deeper and they started to tell private stories. Reidy told stories about his spouse at that time, and so did Dita.
This friendship kept going on this way, until one day (October 10, 2006) Dita wanted to buy a notebook and Reidy promised to accompany her. Dita felt a different way when she saw Reidy walking down the stairs. Dita thought that she might be in love with Reidy. Dita still keeping this secret, even though she could not keep the fact that she was happy. When Dita brought Reidy back to his office, Reidy felt a different way, too. He wanted to be with Dita a little bit longer. An hour after that, Dita and Reidy involved in a conversation on the phone. Dita started to ask questions related to Reidy’s love life, but Reidy answered democratically. They finally agreed to continue this conversation by sms. From this, they decided to be a couple, without became closer before.
One day after (October 11, 2006), Reidy asked Dita to be his wife in about two until five years. Dita told her family, then. Surprisingly, her family wanted her to get married soon. Her family wanted her to get married on January 7, 2007. Soon, Reidy told his family, too. His family was surprised, for sure. But it was not too difficult to make them sure about their relationship. His family agreed with this marriage, but not with the date. Final decision, this marriage would be held on April 22, 2007.